Taking pills doesn’t make me weak

A quick one today, prompted by my visits to a local health clinic.

Examples of medication shaming

I found myself sitting in the waiting room every week, for months on end, staring at a handwritten quote on a blackboard. I’m sure it’s supposed to motivate me in some way, but instead, it just annoyed me. The quote said:

“A person’s health can be judged by which they take two at a time – pills or stairs.”

So, what annoyed me about this statement?

It implies that my health is something to be judged by others. It’s not. It felt like it was saying I’m doing something wrong. I’m not. And finally, I live in a bungalow because my health dictates that. It felt like, by this quotes definition, I’m not even on the scale.

My daily pill total is nearer to forty than it is to thirty. Yes, I just went and counted. It includes medication for chronic pain, bladder muscle dysfunction, the repercussions of having no colon, and supplements for nutritional deficiencies. I have six pill reminders – the longest I go without medication during my day is four hours.

In real life, many times I’ve been on the receiving end of people saying: “I don’t take tablets”, like it’s some kind of achievement; my body is a temple type rubbish. Seemingly implying that they’re stronger or superior to me. All it makes me think is that they’re lucky they don’t have anything they need to take pills for…

Taking medication is often not a choice

For me, taking medication is not a lifestyle choice, it’s a necessity. Without them, I’d be unwell, in agony, miserable, isolated, and most importantly, I would be UNhealthy. Taking my medications allows me to get up in the morning and partake in exercise. Exercise that benefits my body AND mind. It allows me to eat more healthily, and leave the house to socialise and get my body moving. It allows me to be the healthiest I can be.

I don’t feel weak because I’m taking tablets. It’s something I need to do, to be the healthiest I can be, because my body, just like everyone else’s body, has different requirements to function optimally.

Can we stop the medication shaming now?

My body IS a temple; it was just hit by an earthquake and needs more structural support. 💊

3 comments

  1. Greetings my princess , I am on 6 tablets daily but seem to for get the Loperamide which I am ment to take 4 a day.
    Last visit to hospital they suggested I need a catheter as I had Pancras and kidney problems.
    I said to the young lady’s doctor and nurse
    I have a stoma bag and have just got my mind past the fact it’s for life and Concorde that this my life and now you want me to wear another bag…
    So I told them what life I have left before my mortal coil is sprung I would like it to be of quality
    Not of convenience .
    I want to ride my motorbikes with speed, I want to spend all day in my garden with out the thought of leaks, I want and like inter-mite relationships with lady’s and I want to be in concerts and festivals without checking on 2 bags as 1 I have con-cured.
    What ever complications which may concur I will deal with so I refused the catheter the Tesco bag I am stuck with lol.
    Life goes on ……..
    Bless you Sahara and thank you .
    Barry

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      • Wow I have never heard of this thank you I will Google it and read more about it, yet no one in the know mentions this ie nurses or doctors but again you.
        At the moment I’m suffering so much dehydration and trying to get some Electrolyte ( E-mix )
        To help with salt intake as we special people with stoma need but am sent pillar to post….. such is life hey.
        So much tablets Sahara how do you cope? Has your taste buds returned? As I have none, stopped going to restaurants …. What’s the point🤷‍♀️
        Keep up with your blogs as it helps so much to us special people…
        We are all special as humans but we stomas are extra lol.
        Blessings princess
        Barry.

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